Clint and I are doing great. Our jobs rock. It is hard not knowing the language, but the poeple are SO friendly and kind. My principal gave me the largest bouquet of flowers I have ever seen to welcome me to the school. The kids are great. They go to school from 7AM to 10PM and go on Saturdays, too. It blows my mind. I only teach 19 hours a week, but I am here for 40 hours. I do have to assess, grade, or really plan very much because I only see every class once a week. This means that I have 500 students a week, but I only need 1 lesson plan. It is tough doing it 19 times, though, so I will probably do different things. We miss everyone. I will have Clint write soon.
Also, Scott and Nicole (our good friends from Colorado) are here and they came to see us. We also have some friends from Canada and the U.S. that we met at the conference that we hang out with often (this has helped to adjustment tremediously). I better go, but talk to you soon. We miss everyone!:)
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Thursday, August 19, 2010
SOOO FUN!
Clint and I are meeting to most amazing people! So far, we are incredibly impressed with the organization and stature of this conference. We are being treated so well. Last night at opening ceremony we saw the Korean Taekwondo Team for Jeonju University do a performance that blew my socks off. Also, they had a traditional fan dance and a traditional drummer team do performances. It was so amazing. That was followed by an "interesting" and wonderful dinner. I felt like I was at a wedding the way it was all set up so nice. There was a bottle of wine on each table and the chairs all had covers on them with big bows!
We are learning how to behave and speak---both things Clint and I need some work on! So far so GREAT. Keep in touch. We love you all. Off to my lung x-ray and drug test! Woo-hoo!
We are learning how to behave and speak---both things Clint and I need some work on! So far so GREAT. Keep in touch. We love you all. Off to my lung x-ray and drug test! Woo-hoo!
Things you may find strange about Korean behavior
1. Koreans bumping into you in public
2. people not saying "sorry," "excuse me," "please," and "thank you"
3. avoiding eye contact during conversation
4. skaing hands for too long and very limply
5. spitting in public
6. staring at foreigners
7. avoiding sun on skin and the use of skin whiteners
8. making/changing plans at the last minute
9. not contributing much to discussion
10. rarely say "no," instead Koreans will say "maybe," but mean "no"
11. everyone shares from the same plate, and sometimes drinks from the same alcohol glass
12. slurping loudly when eating noodles
13. talk with thier mouths full
14. eat very quickly and leave immediately
15. ask personal questions and freely comment on personal appearence
16. women sometimes hold hands, men often hug and touch each other
17. may refuse twice before accepting something
18. try and practice their english anywhere, even naked at jimjibong
19. praise foreigners for trivial things
20. appearence is extremely important ot Koreans, presenting things well is beter than doing things well
21. try to get on to subways, elevators and buses beofre people have gotten off
22. drivers don't pay attention to traffic lights, cut people off, don't yield to pedestrains, and park anywhere
23. delivery boys on scooters drive like maniacs, go through red lights and drive on the side-walk
24. public restrooms may not have toilet paper or western toilets
25. Korean kids are very sensitive, and will often cry if they get in trouble
2. people not saying "sorry," "excuse me," "please," and "thank you"
3. avoiding eye contact during conversation
4. skaing hands for too long and very limply
5. spitting in public
6. staring at foreigners
7. avoiding sun on skin and the use of skin whiteners
8. making/changing plans at the last minute
9. not contributing much to discussion
10. rarely say "no," instead Koreans will say "maybe," but mean "no"
11. everyone shares from the same plate, and sometimes drinks from the same alcohol glass
12. slurping loudly when eating noodles
13. talk with thier mouths full
14. eat very quickly and leave immediately
15. ask personal questions and freely comment on personal appearence
16. women sometimes hold hands, men often hug and touch each other
17. may refuse twice before accepting something
18. try and practice their english anywhere, even naked at jimjibong
19. praise foreigners for trivial things
20. appearence is extremely important ot Koreans, presenting things well is beter than doing things well
21. try to get on to subways, elevators and buses beofre people have gotten off
22. drivers don't pay attention to traffic lights, cut people off, don't yield to pedestrains, and park anywhere
23. delivery boys on scooters drive like maniacs, go through red lights and drive on the side-walk
24. public restrooms may not have toilet paper or western toilets
25. Korean kids are very sensitive, and will often cry if they get in trouble
Things Koreans find strange about western behavior
This appears in our orientation conference handbook:
Things Koreans find strange about western behavior:
1. overly firm handshake
2. receiving or giving anything with just one hand, especailly the left (very disrespectful)
3. speaking with our hands in our pockets
4. using too much eye contact during conversation
5. the direct nature of our conversations
6. answering with one word answers or responding with a noise like, "aha" or "mhhm"
7. speaking very quickly and using slang
8. challenging other people's opinions
9. asking your employer to give you things in the beginning (they want to give you holiday time as a gift for excellent work, not because they must based on your contract)
10. kissing in public or public shows affection
11. wearing revealing clothing
12. blowing your nose in public (like at a restaurant or in front of class)
Things Koreans find strange about western behavior:
1. overly firm handshake
2. receiving or giving anything with just one hand, especailly the left (very disrespectful)
3. speaking with our hands in our pockets
4. using too much eye contact during conversation
5. the direct nature of our conversations
6. answering with one word answers or responding with a noise like, "aha" or "mhhm"
7. speaking very quickly and using slang
8. challenging other people's opinions
9. asking your employer to give you things in the beginning (they want to give you holiday time as a gift for excellent work, not because they must based on your contract)
10. kissing in public or public shows affection
11. wearing revealing clothing
12. blowing your nose in public (like at a restaurant or in front of class)
On the plane...
August 17th-18th ish
It seems that today has been a continuous string of drifting in and out of consciousness, in and out of anxiety, and in and out of the best feelings of freedom and adventure. Longer than one day, but that all depends on how one measure’s a day. To us, it has been one day because I don’t have any idea what time it is, how long I have been on this airplane, or how long I have been traveling. For once, time does not matter. I have resisted any desire to figure this out and it is very freeing and wonderful. We have left our selves exposed to the whims of the unknown, but we all do that every day that we exist. It is only different now because our predicting mechanisms are slightly skewed. We are on a breeze that will take us to magical places. The best part about this is that all-in-all we are completely stoked. Our daily routine does not offer the exhilaration and anominity that this day offers.
From Minneapolis to Tokyo, we are officially the minority. I feel like a sponge just trying to soak up every emotion, difference, and change. I am relishing in the adventure and excitement that today is so gladly offering. I do hope this continues as I know great challenges will stand before us. I keep telling myself “one day at a time” because the thought of teaching is making me nervous. Mostly it is a combination of questioning my ability as an educator and my ability to adapt to a completely new culture and life. I am so thankful that I have my brave, amazing husband by my side to guide me and support me. It seems that with his support and love, anything is possible.
Already, I have begun thinking about what will separate my good experiences from my bad, and I have come to realize that they can all be good experiences if I make them that way. Some might call it optimism, but I like to call it attitude. This experience will be dictated by our daily attitude and acceptance that they way we do things or the way they do things is not right or wrong, only different. As most of you know, Koreans eat dog. Americans shutter at the thought, but no interceding conjunction crosses the minds of the people who have always lived this way. The next question you are thinking: “will Clint and I eat dog?” You will have to continue reading my blog to find out! Remember, not right or wrong, only different.
To be continued from a dorm room at a University in Jeonbuk where we will be attending an 8-day conference, teaching us the ins-and-outs of teaching English, living in Korea, and, eeeek, speaking the language. For now, annyong hi kye se yo (that is goodbye if you are the one leaving).
It seems that today has been a continuous string of drifting in and out of consciousness, in and out of anxiety, and in and out of the best feelings of freedom and adventure. Longer than one day, but that all depends on how one measure’s a day. To us, it has been one day because I don’t have any idea what time it is, how long I have been on this airplane, or how long I have been traveling. For once, time does not matter. I have resisted any desire to figure this out and it is very freeing and wonderful. We have left our selves exposed to the whims of the unknown, but we all do that every day that we exist. It is only different now because our predicting mechanisms are slightly skewed. We are on a breeze that will take us to magical places. The best part about this is that all-in-all we are completely stoked. Our daily routine does not offer the exhilaration and anominity that this day offers.
From Minneapolis to Tokyo, we are officially the minority. I feel like a sponge just trying to soak up every emotion, difference, and change. I am relishing in the adventure and excitement that today is so gladly offering. I do hope this continues as I know great challenges will stand before us. I keep telling myself “one day at a time” because the thought of teaching is making me nervous. Mostly it is a combination of questioning my ability as an educator and my ability to adapt to a completely new culture and life. I am so thankful that I have my brave, amazing husband by my side to guide me and support me. It seems that with his support and love, anything is possible.
Already, I have begun thinking about what will separate my good experiences from my bad, and I have come to realize that they can all be good experiences if I make them that way. Some might call it optimism, but I like to call it attitude. This experience will be dictated by our daily attitude and acceptance that they way we do things or the way they do things is not right or wrong, only different. As most of you know, Koreans eat dog. Americans shutter at the thought, but no interceding conjunction crosses the minds of the people who have always lived this way. The next question you are thinking: “will Clint and I eat dog?” You will have to continue reading my blog to find out! Remember, not right or wrong, only different.
To be continued from a dorm room at a University in Jeonbuk where we will be attending an 8-day conference, teaching us the ins-and-outs of teaching English, living in Korea, and, eeeek, speaking the language. For now, annyong hi kye se yo (that is goodbye if you are the one leaving).
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Almost there!
We are 4 1/2 days from departure and it is getting pretty exciting. Clint and I realize everyday that the simplest things in our life are the ones we are going to miss the most. We are trying to absorb every ounce or our diminishing comfort zones before being thrown into an unknown place where the small nuances of everyday life will be non-existent. We are hopeful that no matter what experiences await us this year, we will come out of this experience stronger as a couple and as individuals. We are so lucky to have each other. This experience will no doubt provide us with our fair share of challenges, but what is life without those?
We are definitely in the "honeymoon" stage of acculturation. It is filled with rushes of stress and excitement. I know that the next few months will be hard, so I am trying to relish in the excitement part while it lasts. I feel like the most difficult thing right now is the unknown. We do not know what our schools will be like, what our co-workers will be like, what our city will be like, and most of all how we will fit in to this different world. I suppose the answers will be revealed very, very soon:)
We are definitely in the "honeymoon" stage of acculturation. It is filled with rushes of stress and excitement. I know that the next few months will be hard, so I am trying to relish in the excitement part while it lasts. I feel like the most difficult thing right now is the unknown. We do not know what our schools will be like, what our co-workers will be like, what our city will be like, and most of all how we will fit in to this different world. I suppose the answers will be revealed very, very soon:)
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Pre-Korea
It is August 4th, 2010 and my husband, Clint, and I are about to embark on an adventure of a lifetime. We left our dog in Alaska with my dad, our house is packed, the yard sale is finished, and we are about ready to leave the country. We ate sushi last week and got a fortune cookie that read: "Your near future holds a bold and dashing adventure." It is not everyday that fortune cookies provide such truth and insight!
I wanted to start a blog now so that I could look back on this adventure and recall what I was feeling. Also, I want our friends and family (who we are extremely blessed with!) to know what we are doing. We love you and already miss you all and we have not even left yet!
I wanted to start a blog now so that I could look back on this adventure and recall what I was feeling. Also, I want our friends and family (who we are extremely blessed with!) to know what we are doing. We love you and already miss you all and we have not even left yet!
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